Romans 8:38-40

38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[a] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Doesn't that soothe the soul... No matter what, we are in the only permanent position we will ever hold as believers in Christ Jesus.

You'd think it would all be settled and easy with that known, written in truth and proven to our hearts daily. So why can't I love others like I am called to? What is it in me that I can wrap my arms around a stranger that is dirty, on the streets, capable of whatever... just completely unknown and love them, truly love them, but I can't find that flow of love for some of those close to me?
Why am I unwilling to just let God be that love for them too? What if Jesus had this struggle over loving me?
Okay, I know that history plays a huge part of why and how we react to things but when is the history excuse expired? When is history actually history, forgotten and forgiven? I have had to forgive my abuser and that was very hard but God made it possible and somewhere I became willing and now it is a strength instead of a wound. So, as I am taking you through my thoughts in this I am stumped as to why this is a re-occurring issue for me. Somewhere I am unwilling and rebellious. If I am God's child, I am called to love others, honor others and serve others. Honestly, I feel like blowing a raspberry at some of those that I am called to love. How do I suffocate out the bad with the over abundant flow of great when I am deceived in that area? I can't see the knob to turn the foutain on, I have cut the main line off and am at a loss as to how to restore full capacity in this area. I am truly stumped.
What I know... I won't stay stumped because I know my heart is honest before Him and He is always faithful. I know that this too is a growing pain to be endured and stronger from in the end. God knew I wasn't perfect, He accepted that in me and adores me as His child, therefore He loves me too much for me to be left this way.
I am assured of my permanent position that does not concern me it my carrying on the name that brings me to my knees. I feel so unworthy at times (all the time), I feel like I have no ability to bring honor to God when I have these struggles. Then... God steps in and says (something like...), it's the struggle that honors me, I know your heart and you are willing to grow in me, if there were no struggle... Then, that would be a shame. So, would God rather I come along peacefully and quietly? I bet so, but I believe that as long as I am willing to come along... He is smiling with joy.
Well, so I am still here in this place of confusion and struggle but I have just talked myself through the part that was lonely... now, He goes with me! That was it... I put Him out of the struggle and was trying it on my own... I should know better than that but That was my area of blindness. Now, I see!